Sadness is emotional pain associated with, or characterized by feelings of disadvantage, loss, despair, helplessness, sorrow, and rage. The days following the news that our precious embryos did not survive were hard...really hard but I was also surprised that after a day of tears (many, many tears), I picked myself up a little and did my best to be happy. We had a great weekend. We went to a movie, we had friends over for pizza & game night. It was good. I was happy. And then the sadness hit me again. I was thinking about the grief yesterday. And this morning, and most of the rest of my waking hours, actually. I was wondering why this pervasive sadness was back again, when not even getting to transfer after a cycle isn't really as bad as having a miscarriage, no matter how early that miscarriage was. And I realized, because I'm so bright that way, that the sadness is back because this isn't any different than the grief of the miscarriage. It's all on...
Good luck. Tomoroow is a good day I can feel it.
ReplyDeleteI have huge amounts of hope for you tomorrow! I can't wait to hear :)
ReplyDeleteGL tomorrow, did you take a HPT?
ReplyDeleteFingers crosses!!!
ReplyDeleteohhh Janet I will be checking this non stop today. thinking of you.
ReplyDeleteSo I have been stalking you like a mad woman... have been at work last night checking like crazy... just figured out my darn sign in...whilst trying to make a new account.. go figure.
ReplyDeleteI am dying here Janet.... i am so hoping for you and Adam that is is positive...
waiting....